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The ‘Nonchalance Epidemic’: Two Deadly Consequences
In today’s dating landscape, it seems like the more nonchalant you appear, the less you’ll get hurt. But is this really true? According to a psychologist, the answer is no – and with devastating consequences.
As I delve into the world of psychology, it becomes clear that the ‘nonchalance epidemic’ has two destructive outcomes for our chances at loving relationships. These are not just abstract ideas; they have real-life implications on our emotional well-being.
The first consequence of this nonchalant attitude is the erosion of meaningful connections. When we prioritize our ego over emotional connection, we risk being left alone with our thoughts and feelings. This could be described as a ‘pervasive feeling of loneliness.’ For instance, let’s take the case of those who identify as having few or no friends in an Atlantic Canadian city. Research suggests that this chronic loneliness can cause serious harm.
In reality, avoiding connections isn’t limited to romantic relationships alone. When our social networks become void of meaning and substance, even simple self-care becomes a struggle. It appears that we’re not only missing out on potential love but also sacrificing essential well-being.
The second consequence is the crippling effect it has on building trust in any meaningful relationship. As I explore this concept further, it’s clear that people who act as if they’re ‘above it all’ (meaning that their emotions don’t get hurt or they won’t “make a big deal” out of something) may seem cool, but are ultimately robbing themselves of the deeper joy that comes from opening up and being vulnerable.
Source: www.forbes.com
